Good Grooming and Intimacy

It's Friday night and it has been a BUSY night.

So I will keep it brief and expand on this idea in the coming blog posts.

Part of what creates intimacy is the ability to get close physically.

To do that and to create the environment where we desire to do that, we need to practice some SUPERB self-grooming.

Showing
Baths

Of course, we do this daily. However, after a long day at the office, it really DOES contribute to a yummy up-close experience to be together to shower or bath again.

The ladies totally get into this. We love to go through our toilet preparation hours before.

Shower.

Powder.

Scented lotion.

Perfume.

The men? Well a second shower can be fabulous and contribute to our DESIRING to be physically close with you.

Cologne
aftershave
yum!

Enjoy!

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach

Creating Intimacy

As a Romance Coach with a specialty as an Online Dating Coach, one of the questions I go over with my clients is, "When you say you want a relationship, what do you mean by that? What do you want in that relationship? What does being in a relationship mean to you?"

Indeed, one of the common attributes many of them want is

INTIMACY

You, perhaps, are immediately thinking of sexual intimacy.

And certainly, I hope you do.

Because SEXUAL INTIMACY is essential.

However, there are other aspects to intimacy.

Sexual Intimacy, for example, is actually a subcomponent of communication.

Sexual Intimacy is actually SENSUAL communication.

So, how are your communication skills?

Are you fostering intimacy with how you communicate with your date? With your partner? With your spouse?

Something to think about!

All the best,

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach

Singles Love Advice from your Dating Coach - what do you HAVE to have?

I hear from a number of singles who have NEVER been married that they have a very long laundry list of what they HAVE to have in a relationship.

This can be very romantic, and as Romance Coach with a specialty as an Online Dating Coach, I do encourage my clients to BE ROMANTIC.

However, also keep 2 feet on the ground.

This is not about a weekend fling or a Holiday or Vacation Fling. Those can be perfectly lovely and can help to MOVE us forward energetically in our Quest for Love and Quest for Love Online. However, when we are seeking to create a long term committed relationship which for many might mean marriage, then we need to consider other factors as well.

Your list of what you REALLY HAVE to HAVE will likely actually be relatively short.

One of mine is he has to be a reader. Now, he doesn't have to read as MUCH as I do or even the SAME books (too much sameness in a relationship means there is NO chemistry. Yuck!).

But if you ever see my living room and how I invest a lot of my time, it is in READING.

In order to SHARE LIFE together, we would both need to do that and have ideas to share together and chew on together. Mutually invigorating exchange of ideas. Yum!

What about you?

What is ESSENTIAL for you in a relationship for life?

All the best,

April Braswell

Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach, Internet Dating Profile Writer Service

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She's moving in!

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she is moving in with her intended over the next few weeks.

Praying for all those boxes to be easy to pack and move! You are inspiring me! My clients always inspire me!

All the best,

April Braswell
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